Earlier today, I saw on my BlackBerry Messenger (BBM) the following status update of my Friend:
Please read the full PINGterview.
LifeGemz: Hey, do U mind if I PINGterview U based on Ur BBM status update: "I don't need a Man to make me Happy!"?
CFL: Looool
LifeGemz: Can U shade a little light on how U came about ya status update, What prompted dat, and do U give Ur concent I use dis PINGterview on one of my blogs (without naming d source?)
CFL: U really making me laugh; because I really don't know what to say.
LifeGemz: Haahahah as a Celibrity, words should not be scarce
CFL: Celebrity ke
LifeGemz: Yes, so do you mind just giving more light on such situations that can make a Beauty Queen make such comments
CFL: Anyway I just wrote the status because I have been job huntin for the past 4 months and nothing is comin my way so I got frustrated and have to expect more from my boyfriend, and because he's human he's bound to disappoint.
And I just thought of it that am not gonna give up lookin for job 'cos "I don't need a man to be the source of my happiness"
LifeGemz: Ok, so its a little geared towards anger of d heart?
CFL: Yeah you got that right.
LifeGemz: So what advice do U give most Girls that are "over" dependent on men in such cases?
CFL: They should believe in themselves.
LifeGemz: And also some men that are only present when the going is good?
CFL: And a man need no girl to be a liability to them.
And for men that stay around when it's good, Hmmm - What goes around comes around.
LifeGemz: Is there any more advice you can give to the general public on what not to do when they find themselves in similar situation, with minimal support from their Boy/Girl friends?
CFL: I guess no one is the source of your happiness but yourself.
LifeGemz: Talking about source of happiness, some opinion polls shows that "most men" are source of happiness for their Babes/girl friends: what's your take on that?
CFL: Yeah but when it comes to means of survival. I don't think so
LifeGemz: Finally, is there any other thing you wish to add?
Do you mind if this PingTerview is published online?
Please read what other friends said when ask of the same question: I don't need a Man to make me Happy - BBM PING Reactions.
And kindly add your own thought here.
Thanks and remember that Life is full of gems, find the best way to polish your gems, so that your life can shine from wherever you are.
I don't need a Man to make me Happy
- I decided to conduct a PINGterview to understand what, why and how the status update came about.Please read the full PINGterview.
LifeGemz: Hey, do U mind if I PINGterview U based on Ur BBM status update: "I don't need a Man to make me Happy!"?
CFL: Looool
LifeGemz: Can U shade a little light on how U came about ya status update, What prompted dat, and do U give Ur concent I use dis PINGterview on one of my blogs (without naming d source?)
CFL: U really making me laugh; because I really don't know what to say.
LifeGemz: Haahahah as a Celibrity, words should not be scarce
CFL: Celebrity ke
LifeGemz: Yes, so do you mind just giving more light on such situations that can make a Beauty Queen make such comments
CFL: Anyway I just wrote the status because I have been job huntin for the past 4 months and nothing is comin my way so I got frustrated and have to expect more from my boyfriend, and because he's human he's bound to disappoint.
And I just thought of it that am not gonna give up lookin for job 'cos "I don't need a man to be the source of my happiness"
LifeGemz: Ok, so its a little geared towards anger of d heart?
CFL: Yeah you got that right.
LifeGemz: So what advice do U give most Girls that are "over" dependent on men in such cases?
CFL: They should believe in themselves.
LifeGemz: And also some men that are only present when the going is good?
CFL: And a man need no girl to be a liability to them.
And for men that stay around when it's good, Hmmm - What goes around comes around.
LifeGemz: Is there any more advice you can give to the general public on what not to do when they find themselves in similar situation, with minimal support from their Boy/Girl friends?
CFL: I guess no one is the source of your happiness but yourself.
LifeGemz: Talking about source of happiness, some opinion polls shows that "most men" are source of happiness for their Babes/girl friends: what's your take on that?
CFL: Yeah but when it comes to means of survival. I don't think so
LifeGemz: Finally, is there any other thing you wish to add?
Do you mind if this PingTerview is published online?
Please read what other friends said when ask of the same question: I don't need a Man to make me Happy - BBM PING Reactions.
And kindly add your own thought here.
Thanks and remember that Life is full of gems, find the best way to polish your gems, so that your life can shine from wherever you are.
No one but you can make you happy. No person should have to rely on another person to make them happy. If you do, then prepare yourself for disappointment.
ReplyDeleteThanks @Adrian,
ReplyDeleteThe problem with many people is the over dependence on their partners. This now makes then feel cheated or out of place when they don't get the needed attention.
No one should be overly dependent on the other, but complement each other.
No man or woman is also an island unto himself or herself. Overly or solely dependent on another human being for happiness NO but do we need ourselves to be fully happy? YES
ReplyDeleteWell its True, Just like You don't need wealth to make you happpy. If you have Jesus, dats all the happiness one need.
ReplyDeleteDumebi
Maybe she is evil.
ReplyDeleteHi Deee
Hehehe... Its born out of bitterness and insecurity.
ReplyDeleteShe must be absolutely Heartbroken.
Nomsy